It’s hard to believe that what was once a tiny little peanut, is now this huge (in comparison to his little bro) 4 year old, that is loaded with energy, has a fearless spirit, is always moving (always!) and is ready to make mischief and nearly every turn. He has a generous heart, friendly to just about everyone he meets, and is always aiming to make people laugh. So here is all about Joey at this age and stage.
He is 4 years old now, but it took him awhile to warm up to it. In weeks leading up to his birthday, he didn’t want to be 4 and insisted that he wanted to stay 3 forever. We kept trying to convince him how much better 4 is and how much more fun he will get to have because he’s bigger. Some days he embraces being older especially when he thinks it suits him… “I’m big enough to go on that giant scary ride for grown-ups Mommy, I’m 4 now!” And some days he likes to convince us he is still a baby, like when we ask him to clean up his toys or other little kid “chores” we ask him to do. But he is my little Peter Pan. Most the time, he doesn’t want to grow up.
His tastes in toys and play things has changed from being obsessed with trains (Thomas) to loving a mix of Cars (from Disney), Jake & The Neverland Pirates/Peter Pan, the Avengers and all things comic book super heroes. Our days of play usually start with playing with cars on the train table, and evolves into sword fighting like Captain Hook and Peter Pan, then playing Captain America and Iron Man fighting the bad guys. Mix in a bit of wrestling with the little bro (who usually is the one who instigates it) and a few games on mommy’s iPhone and a bit of play outside with our pirate ship water table and that is our day. He likes to play constantly and play hard.
Joey is ever the jokester. He is always trying to make you laugh, whether it be from made up knock-knock jokes (of which he is obsessed), to purposely picking the wrong answer to a question because he thinks it is funny. Always trying to be silly. For some reason, I foresee him someday being the class clown, as I imagine he does the same at school as he does at home. In a way is joker side is endearing, but I’m also afraid it will get him in trouble especially in school.
He is always wanting to be a good helper. He loves to help Daddy “fix things”, in fact, I think he is in need of his own tool belt. He wants to follow daddy to the garage or the basement or anywhere that Daddy has to go work on or fix things. He loves to help mommy in the kitchen. He wants to learn to be a “good cooker” like mommy he tells us, while he stands on a chair in his apron helping with simple tasks like mixing and spreading. I think I am going to like this more and more as he gets older and more helpful. Too bad he doesn’t like being such a good helper when it comes time to picking up his toys.
More Quick Joey Facts:
- Likes: Imaginative play, pirates, cars, trains, sword fighting, super heroes, Disney Jr., swimming, playing in or with water, fixing things, books, sweets, cooking/baking, saying his prayers with Mommy at bedtime
- Dislikes: Naps, sitting still, getting his picture taken, seeing others hurt, upset or crying, cleaning up toys, most any vegetables but broccoli, trying anything new to eat, going to his room when in trouble
- Fears: Pretty fearless except for bugs and certain sounds like vacuums, hair dryers and hand dryers
- Reads: Not quite yet, but he is great at sounding out letters and just starting to put the sounds together. Loves books but still prefers us to read to him than working on learning to read himself.
- Words to describe him: Caring, loving, helpful, friendly, outgoing, spirited, stubborn, hyper, talkative