All About Nathan – Look Who’s Two!

2 year old nathanOne of the many reasons I started this blog was because I wanted to document the happenings with my children and have a place to remember what their younger years were like.  It’s time for an “All About” post and today’s focus is all about my second born and newly minted 2 year old, Nathan.

This little peanut that made me a mom for the second time, and made Joey a Big Brother has just recently turned 2 years old. We celebrated with cake and a little train themed party, because like his big brother, he has become a huge fan of trains (more on that later). His second year certainly has flown by and he has grown so much and even became a big brother. And he is the best big brother.

N_2ndBirthdayThis year we’ve really seen Nathan’s true personality emerge as he went from babyhood into toddlerville. What he showed us is that he is a sensitive and shy little guy. It takes him a while to warm up to someone or even make eye contact when he first meets them or hasn’t seen them in awhile.  This shyness a trait he gets from his mother (believe it or not).

After his first birthday, we were slightly concerned about his language development because of chronic ear infections. But we didn’t worry for long as his speech and comprehension suddenly blossomed overnight and at this time we have quite the chatterbox.   It is makes it so much easier now that he can tell us what he needs, and what he wants. But at times we need to remind him to use his words.

Like most two year olds, he wears his emotions on his sleeve. He is the master of what I call the “toddler flop”. Don’t know what that is?  Well tell your 2 year old no, or don’t give him what he wants and you will witness a quick drop to the floor usually followed by tears or wails. And when he is feeling really sad, he comes up to me, takes my hands and places them on his cheeks on either side of his face and says “I’m sad”, which seems to be the way he likes to calm himself down.

Much like his older brother at this age, he has developed a love and obsession with trains. It probably helped that his older brother has quite a collection of Thomas and other train toys already, so it was natural for him to gravitate to those toys. He LOVES trains of all kinds it seems. He loves train themed books, train themed toys, Thomas and Friends (obviously), train videos, riding on trains, etc. Sometimes he loves to sit and watch YouTube videos of real life trains going by, which is helpful when I need to keep him occupied for a few minutes so I can shower.

He has turned into a loving big brother to his baby sister, and is a good buddy to his big brother. Also Nathan appears to be a budding wrestler. Both his father and I are quite impressed at his natural wrestling abilities (where the heck did this come from?), especially the takedowns of his older brother, who is nearly twice his size. And his poor big brother is usually minding his own business before Nathan launches his attack.

Nathanis2_v2He has a smile that warms your heart and gives the biggest hugs. And unlike he was 1 year ago, he actually sleeps so much better. By himself! And does it (usually) without a fight! Imagine that.

Likes:

  • Playing outside
  • Peanut butter sandwiches
  • Going Bye Bye
  • Trains
  • Dump trucks
  • Snuggling
  • Doing things himself
  • Wrestling with big brother
  • Chasing big brother
  • Loving on little sister
  • Chocolate anything

Dislikes:

  • Getting off train rides
  • Disney Characters in Costume/Santa
  • Spinach
  • Being chased by big brother
  • Milk in the wrong cup
  • Sharing (working on that)
  • Naptime (sometimes)

All About the J-Man – 4 Years, 2 Months

IMG_0405It’s hard to believe that what was once a tiny little peanut, is now this huge (in comparison to his little bro) 4 year old, that is loaded with energy, has a fearless spirit, is always moving (always!) and is ready to make mischief and nearly every turn. He has a generous heart, friendly to just about everyone he meets, and is always aiming to make people laugh. So here is all about Joey at this age and stage.

He is 4 years old now, but it took him awhile to warm up to it. In weeks leading up to his birthday, he didn’t want to be 4 and insisted that he wanted to stay 3 forever. We kept trying to convince him how much better 4 is and how much more fun he will get to have because he’s bigger. Some days he embraces being older especially when he thinks it suits him… “I’m big enough to go on that giant scary ride for grown-ups Mommy, I’m 4 now!” And some days he likes to convince us he is still a baby, like when we ask him to clean up his toys or other little kid “chores” we ask him to do. But he is my little Peter Pan. Most the time, he doesn’t want to grow up.

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His tastes in toys and play things has changed from being obsessed with trains (Thomas) to loving a mix of Cars (from Disney), Jake & The Neverland Pirates/Peter Pan, the Avengers and all things comic book super heroes. Our days of play usually start with playing with cars on the train table, and evolves into sword fighting like Captain Hook and Peter Pan, then playing Captain America and Iron Man fighting the bad guys. Mix in a bit of wrestling with the little bro (who usually is the one who instigates it) and a few games on mommy’s iPhone and a bit of play outside with our pirate ship water table and that is our day. He likes to play constantly and play hard.

Joey is ever the jokester. He is always trying to make you laugh, whether it be from made up knock-knock jokes (of which he is obsessed), to purposely picking the wrong answer to a question because he thinks it is funny. Always trying to be silly. For some reason, I foresee him someday being the class clown, as I imagine  he does the same at school as he does at home. In a way is joker side is endearing, but I’m also afraid it will get him in trouble especially in school.

He is always wanting to be a good helper. He loves to help Daddy “fix things”, in fact, I think he is in need of his own tool belt. He wants to follow daddy to the garage or the basement or anywhere that Daddy has to go work on or fix things.  He loves to help mommy in the kitchen. He wants to learn to be a “good cooker” like mommy he tells us, while he stands on a chair in his apron helping with simple tasks like mixing and spreading. I think I am going to like this more and more as he gets older and more helpful.  Too bad he doesn’t like being such a good helper when it comes time to picking up his toys.

More Quick Joey Facts:

  • Likes: Imaginative play, pirates, cars, trains, sword fighting, super heroes, Disney Jr., swimming, playing in or with water, fixing things, books, sweets, cooking/baking, saying his prayers with Mommy at bedtime
  • Dislikes: Naps, sitting still, getting his picture taken, seeing others hurt, upset or crying, cleaning up toys, most any vegetables but broccoli, trying anything new to eat, going to his room when in trouble
  • Fears: Pretty fearless except for bugs and certain sounds like vacuums, hair dryers and hand dryers
  • Reads: Not quite yet, but he is great at sounding out letters and just starting to put the sounds together. Loves books but still prefers us to read to him than working on learning to read himself.
  • Words to describe him: Caring, loving, helpful, friendly, outgoing, spirited, stubborn, hyper, talkative